THINGS EVERY TEEN GIRL IN A RELATIONSHIP SHOULD KNOW!

 

Hello young ladies!

I know being a teenager in itself is tough. You really do not understand what’s happening around you and inside you. No one really seems to understand. You find elders annoying. Everything is a mess. 

But, then you find this cute creature who pretty much understands you. Cares for you. Makes you laugh. AH! That feeling. Like you are loved and understood.

But, this relationship can also take a toll on you, sometimes. You may forget to take care of yourself, which isn’t healthy. Here’s how you can love yourself while loving your special one:

HAVE FUN: It’s your teenager, don’t take everything so seriously. Give yourself some space and him also. Be creative. Play your favorite sport. Watch some good series. Basically, it shouldn’t be like you are spending all your time just on him. Dude, these years are so precious you wouldn’t want to waste them in a relationship, which may not continue in the future( I hope that doesn’t happen, but let’s keep in mind the facts).

TRUST YOUR VIBES: Trust yourself. Trust how you feel about things. You may feel sometimes that he is lying so ask him questions. Deny things he asks you to do if you do not feel right doing them. Your body talks to you, it gives you a red sign, every time. DO NOT IGNORE IT. 

DO NOT SHARE THOSE PICTURES:

Sharing nudes can be a really wrong decision. We live in an era of the internet and viral content. It can be that you trust him and know that he won’t share them with anyone. But there are so many cases where nudes can get leak by accident. Someone may send it to themselves from his phone, there can be many possibilities. Also if you guys are very young then it’s not right to send nudes to each other. (“ BOIS LOCKER ROOM” was a case where we got to know a lot. So it’s always good to be careful.)

SELF RESPECT IS EVERYTHING: You do not deserve to feel like shit. You do not deserve to be treated like you are nobody. He can’t say mean things to you or bully you. He can not talk to you like you mean nothing to him. You will know when he is doing that. Do not let him do that. These little things can turn into a toxic relationship. You will not even realize it. You know what happens you begin to believe all the shit he says, which isn’t true, obviously. If you will not respect yourself, how you gonna love yourself. If you can not love yourself, you can't love anybody.

ALWAYS REMEMBER, YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL. YOU ARE STRONG. YOU LOVE YOURSELF. 

GOOD LUCK WITH YOUR LIFE, GIRLS:)